Friday, 21 January 2011

Nothing in the world makes you love home so much as being gone far from it for far too long

I would like to share this poem with my clients and expats friends living in Umbria. My books of Billy Collins' poems are amazing, his love and understanding of Italy - its people, its food, its wine, its gioia di vivere - shine through in all his pieces of writing.

Consolation:


How agreeable it is not to be touring Italy this summer,

wandering her cities and ascending her torrid hilltowns,

How much better to cruise these local, familiar streets,

fully grasping the meaning of every roadsign and billboard

and all the sudden hand gestures of my compatriots.

There are no abbeys here, no crumbling frescoes or famous

domes and there is no need to memorize a succession

of kings or tour the dripping corners of a dungeon.

No need to stand around a sarcophagus, see Napoleon's

little bed on Elba, or view the bones of a saint under glass.

How much better to command the simple precinct of home

than be dwarfed by pillar, arch, and basilica.

Why hide my head in phrase books and wrinkled maps?

Why feed scenery into a hungry, one-eyes camera

eager to eat the world one monument at a time?

Instead of slouching in a café ignorant of the word for ice,

I will head down to the coffee shop and the waitress

known as Dot. I will slide into the flow of the morning

paper, all language barriers down,

rivers of idiom running freely, eggs over easy on the way.

And after breakfast, I will not have to find someone

willing to photograph me with my arm around the owner.

I will not puzzle over the bill or record in a journal

what I had to eat and how the sun came in the window.

It is enough to climb back into the car

as if it were the great car of English itself

and sounding my loud vernacular horn, speed off

down a road that will never lead to Rome, not even Bologna.

Tuesday, 4 January 2011

Happy New Year

It's purely arbitrary that we mark the first of January as the start of the new year. Our pagan ancients celebrated the coming of a New Year in spring, a logical time of new beginnings. Blame that pesky Julius Cesear for plunking the New Year down in January. Didn't he even think about airports and travel and snowstorms? Those Romans!


Well, the New Year has to start sometime and I try to remember to eat lentils to bring good fortune into our household... this is what we do in Italy.

Abode wish everyone a safe, healthy and happy New Year!

Wednesday, 15 December 2010

The legend of La Befana

The legend of Babbo Natale (Santa Claus) has existed in Italy since the days of World War II. However, there is even a more ancient (and equally popular) Italian Christmas tradition that has its origins traced back to the 13th century: the legend of "la Befana". Every year on the night between the 5th and 6th of January, which is the Epiphany day, (Greek term meaning "manifestation" or "appearing"), la Befana flies on her broom stick to bring presents to children. La Befana is an old hunch-backed lady with a big red nose. She wears broken shoes and a colourful patched dress. The legend has it that on the 12th night of Christmas (January 5th) the three Wise Men, on their search for the baby Jesus, knocked on somebody's door. A woman was busily sweeping her house when they came to her door. They said they were seeking the new King who was born in Bethlehem. When they asked her to show them the way, she replied that she was too much busy. Later, she felt sorry that she had not helped the three Wise Men, so she set out after them. She searched and searched, but she didn't find them. La Befana felt really bad, that's why she is still travelling on her magic broom, every year on the same night, searching for the Christ Child. She carries a big bag on her back full of sweets, which la Befana will use to fill the stockings that children have left by their chimney. The children who have behaved in the past year, will find sweets and chocolates in their stocking on the day of the Epiphany. Those who didn't behave will only get a few lumps of coal. (It's sweet coal and I love it! ;-)).
Here is an Italian nursery rhyme that children usually sing for la Befana
La Befana vien di notte
con le scarpe tutte rotte
col cappello alla romana
viva viva la Befana!
Rough Translation
La Befana comes at night
wearing old broken shoes
dressed with a Roman style hat
long live la Befana!
Author: Sonia Tardetti